Love to me


Happy new year.. Hope 2010 will be all that you hope and pray for...


The remaining parts of Chennai Chronicle will soon arrive, until then hope you might enjoy reading my thoughts about this one all time favorite question of mine, why do girls fall for the wrong guy?Is there some kind of attraction towards the fatal? not alone that, you fall in love with the wrong guy and cry about it, try harder then ever to forget him but in vain. Why does love have to be so complicated?
Is it always the love with the wrong, thats complicated? or are the one's made for each other also experience complicated love? lemme not complicate it with too many questions. Let's try finding some answers here.. Firstly, why do girls fall for wrong guys, the answer would be - with a hope to find the right one - trial and error method i guess... Then why doesn't she dump him once she know's he's not right. cos' they are stupid enough to think that they have the power vested in them to change this wrong guy into their Mr.Right just like in fairy tales. Alas, life is no fairy tale...

Next let's talk about the fatal attraction, i guess it comes very naturally to humans. We are attracted to everything that could kill us, it excites us. Else we wouldn't have snake fighters, wrestlers, formula one racers, sky divers, deep sea divers. What say? so a girl developing liking to a wrong guy and getting into a hollow relationship isn't an impossible task,i say. and hey, if the guy was wrong for the girl what about the vice versa rule?

Love and complications are not as complicated as they seem. I've noticed few simple lovers too i would like to classify them into three categories(if i have left out any category and you would want me to add please let me know about it. ) namely -the lead-follow lover's : here one person leads and the other merely follows ( now who leads and who follows is not an issue) and no problem arises between them. Secondly, there's open lover's : Here it doesn't bother the partner's what each other do in their personal life. They appear understanding and very matured to the outside world. The chances of complications are less in this kinda relationships too. The final one True Lover's :who accept their partner's for what ever they are and both partner's are true to each other ( do we find such people in the world today?? I'm still looking!!)

Don't you think all this simple explanations of complicated love and complicated explanation of simple love is actually ******* .. That's what i feel too. Any person could be right/wrong it all depends on the perspective. Make sure the feelings are genuine from both ends and just love each other, remember to change with time but never change your feelings for one other, you grow old but don't let your love.Most important of all, understand your partner is another human being who has a life, a job, parents, siblings, friends, colleagues, stress, tension, hair fall, weight problem,height problem, fairness problem, allergy, ulcer, cold, fever, throat infection, malaria, cholera, blood pressure, blood sugar,body pain, needs, wants, desires,responsibilities... just like you do!




3 comments:

SSS said...

hey
"We are attracted to everything that could kill us, it excites us" u wrote dis
awesome line
similar concept s used in movie Avatar to catch d dragon for flying.
d way u ended dis post has a deep impact

Unknown said...

thnks.. for.. the valuable comment..

the lines are mine.. and im yet to watch avatar, so i have no clue as to what ur talking.

the frustration peak is what is reflected in the end of the post.

Pat said...

to find the right person is the right thing to do. sometimes women fall in love with the wrong person, and all the while knowing it, they proceed into the relationship until it is too late to turn back. then, the only thing to do is marry the wrong man to get him out of their system so they can have a normal life. then life is never normal again.

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